“You shall love your neighbor as yourself." That’s what Jesus said the second core of the Law was:
Love God with all your being, and your neighbor as yourself.
One temptation with this commandment can be to start asking, “Then who is my neighbor?” Another lawyer of Jesus’ day asked him just that question. Jesus answered with the story of the Good Samaritan, one conclusion of which is that our neighbor can be someone we don’t like or trust very much. Our neighbor can be anyone, and is everyone.
That’s not my question today. I want to focus more on the second part of the verse – “as yourself.” Jesus (and the compilers of the law codes in Leviticus) links love for self and love for other in a way that merits deeper exploration. What does it mean to love my neighbor as I love myself?
Since we don’t always love ourselves very well, we don’t always love our neighbors well either. If we are very critical of ourselves, we’ll extend that tendency to other people. That is one way of loving our neighbors as ourselves – but not very life-giving.
How else do we love ourselves? Most of us, whatever our insecurities or self-criticisms, are pretty protective of our safety – maybe loving our neighbors as ourselves means we’re equally concerned about theirs. And most of us are wired to be sure we have enough to eat and a sheltered place to live… a godly love for neighbor would include wanting the same for them. Yikes - this is a lot! Is it just too much to love our neighbors as ourselves? Too hard?
I don’t think God calls us to anything his Spirit can’t equip us to handle. We just have to let the Spirit rewire the faulty coding we get from this world, the message that says put yourself and your own kind first, don’t trust the Other. Even with the most expansive sense of possibilities, though, I don’t know that we’ll ever get to where we can feed everybody in the world, will we? Except that we know there is enough food; it’s just not distributed very equitably. So maybe loving our neighbor as ourselves motivates us to work on that challenge, or on housing, or security. Maybe we feed ourselves a little less so our neighbor has more.
Ultimately, this neighbor-loving business has to happen one at a time. When we go global in our thinking, we easily end up discouraged and paralyzed. But one neighbor today? Maybe one you hadn’t planned on loving? Maybe start simply by praying for that person to be blessed? That we can do…
In prayer today I invite you to think first of yourself. Try to imagine for a moment how God sees you. You can even ask the Spirit to give you a glimpse of what God sees in you. Love what you see, or at least trust in God’s love for you.
And then imagine someone who is your neighbor. If you’re feeling adventurous, don’t come up with a name; ask God, “Who is the neighbor you want me to love today?” Who knows whose face is going to come up in your mind’s eye! Sit with the image. Ask how you’re being called to love that person.
In a world where we often assume scarcity, neighbors are one thing we’ll never run out of. And learning to love them is a challenge for our whole lifetime. We may as well get good at it, because I have a feeling that is just what we’re going to spend eternity doing.
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