9-19-18 - Holy Doormats?

(You can listen to this reflection here. Sunday's gospel reading is here.)

We all know people like this – some of us have been people like this: people who jump up to fetch anything anyone might need, who are always asking, “Are you okay? Can I get you anything?,” who put aside their lives and careers to care for children or infirm parents, who show up at events even when they’re tired. As a culture, we’re ambivalent about such folks – sometimes we say, “What a saint!” and other times, “How co-dependent is she!”

Some of Jesus' teaching can sound like we are to be holy doormats, laying aside our own agenda, never seeking to be in charge, always serving. For instance, when he heard his disciples arguing about who is the greatest, "He sat down, called the twelve, and said to them, 'Whoever wants to be first must be last of all and servant of all.'”

Does Christian humility demand that we sacrifice our dreams and passions? Or does being a servant of all require rather that we be true to who God made us to be? We cannot empty ourselves if we are not full of ourselves.

To be “full of oneself” in our culture is to be conceited, self-promoting. But such an orientation comes from a place of insecurity, a heart that is empty, a self that is not quite full. A healthy person knows who she or he is, faults and blind spots, strengths and gifts. Only as we truly own the fullness of who God made us to be can we empty ourselves for the sake of God’s mission. After all, Jesus did not pour himself out from stocks that were running low; he poured himself out from the fullness of his humanity and divinity.

Those who want to excel as disciples of Jesus Christ are called to serve the world in his name. If part of your charism is to be a leader, are you able to lead as a servant?
How does serving others sit with you? Is it comfortable? Challenging? Too familiar? Demeaning?

If service is your default position, make sure your giving is in balance with your being nourished by God and the community. If serving others is uncomfortable, practice. Go serve a meal at a shelter or soup kitchen. Make a point of making coffee at the office – or making copies!

First or last, we are never alone in our serving. We serve alongside the One who had everything and gave it all in service to an ungrateful world. He can show us how to be servants of all with dignity and grace. 

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